We Hosted a Travelers of Color Meetup in Tokyo — Here Is What Happened

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We Hosted a Travelers of Color Meetup in Tokyo — Here Is What Happened

I have been in Tokyo for two years on an artist visa — technically a Cultural Activities visa, which the Japanese immigration system issues for artists, scholars, and people with active cultural exchange purposes. I got it through a longstanding relationship with a Tokyo gallery that has been showing my mixed-media work for four years. In my second year here, I started feeling the absence of community in a specific way that surprised me, because I have always been someone who functions well in solitude. The loneliness was not about Japan — Japan is not a country that goes out of its way to make you feel included, and I had accepted that. The loneliness was about the absence of people who understood what it means to be navigating a foreign country as someone with a nonwhite body in a world that was built around assumptions about which bodies belong where. I organized a meetup. I posted in three groups — POC Travelers Japan, Black in Japan Network, and a general expats-of-color Discord server I had found. I chose a venue I liked, a standing bar in Shimokitazawa that had good natural wine and a terrace, on a Wednesday evening at 7 PM. Thirty-one people came. **Who Showed Up** The room was a specific kind of beautiful. An Indian-American woman teaching at Waseda University. Two Nigerian PhD students. A Somali-Swedish filmmaker on a Japan Foundation grant. A Peruvian chef who had moved to Tokyo six years ago and married a Japanese librarian. Four Black American English teachers at various stages of their contracts, from first month to fifth year. A second-generation Korean-Japanese woman who had never been to a community event specifically for non-white residents and had dressed up because she was nervous. She was the person I talked to longest that evening. Her name is Chika and she was thirty-four and had grown up in a part of Tokyo where she was often the only Korean-Japanese person in a social environment, which is a specific experience of being a racial minority within a country that presents as racially homogenous. She had never before been in a room where her experience of being visibly other in Japan was the shared context rather than an explanation she had to provide. She stayed until the bar closed. **What We Discussed** In a country where the dominant social code is harmony and non-directness, there was something almost startling about a room full of people being direct about their experiences. The Indian-American professor described her department's response when she suggested decolonizing a literature curriculum — the polite deflection, the administrative time-buying, the absence of explicit objection and presence of complete non-movement. Universal laughter of recognition. A Black American teacher who had been in Tokyo for five years described the maturation of his experience: the first year of constant staring and novelty, the second year of exhaustion, the third year of a kind of settled acceptance, and by year five the deep affection for a city that has never fully let him in but which he has built a genuine life within regardless. **What I Learned About Hosting Community** Show up exactly as you are. Do not create a formal program. Put people in a room with beverages and room to move around. The conversations will organize themselves because the shared context is already so strong. I have now hosted three more meetups in Tokyo. The last one drew sixty-two people and we had to move to a larger venue mid-evening. I have connected people to jobs, to housing, to collaborators, to friendships that have outlasted multiple contexts. Community at the intersection of travel and race does not require infrastructure. It requires one person who says: this room is for us, come on Wednesday. Come on Wednesday.

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